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I’m Doing Week Long Challenges Again

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So I did this challenge three years ago (wow, that long already????). Instead of a traditional New Year’s resolution which is expected to carry through the entire year, I picked four different goals and then tried them for ONE SINGLE WEEK in January.

Here, I’ll repost the meme I made last time haha.

Even though I only made my goals a week-long challenge for myself, I actually ended up making genuine positive changes in my life that I still uphold to this day! Last time, my goals were pretty sensible. I spent a week waking up earlier, cutting sugar, getting outside, and reading more often. Okay, this time my week goals are a bit more weirdo. BUT HANG IN THERE WITH ME, OKAY. I really do believe these things could benefit me! Or not. Honestly. Either way, I’ll hopefully find out if I try it for a week.

WEEK ONE: POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA EVERY DAY

I bet there are a lot of people making resolutions to get off social media lol. Soooo… I’m bad at this. I have a feeling that I could make fun and engaging content. But I just never do. I never share stuff about my life or writing or when my blogs come out or ANYTHING. So I’m going to try it out for a week and see how I feel. NOT COMMITTING TO NOTHIN’. But if it feels manageable, then maybe I could go for more of a social media presence.

Not to overshare, but posting to social media inexplicably terrifies me. Like I have a desire to do it. I desperately want attention, and I daydream about getting attention, but I also feel getting attention is bad?? Like other people/things deserve more attention than me. So it seems like a silly resolution, but it is important to me to reclaim some space in this world… Thanks… I’ll send you payment for the therapy session later.

WEEK TWO: GET GORGEOUS EVERY SINGLE DAY

Yeah so. I just never do this anymore. I’m home all day, taking care of little kids, and taking the time to do it feels impossible some days. So I’m going to try to dress up. Just out of curiosity. Like… does it even really matter? Does it make a difference or not?

WEEK THREE: POTTY TRAIN MY DAUGHTER

Exactly what it sounds like. I tried and failed several months ago, but she’s way more ready for it now. So I’ll take the whole week to extensively potty train.

WEEK FOUR: WRITE LIKE STEVEN KING

I don’t mean prose or technique. I’m talking about his daily routine. Specifically, that he writes two thousand words and then immediately edits them same day. That freaks me out! Not the 2k words daily but the EDITING STRAIGHT AFTER. My routine is to sloppily draft the entire book and then big-picture-edit it into oblivion until I’ve re-written the book five hundred times. I have such an aversion to the idea of cleaning up a chapter that’ll have to be removed or changed anyway. This must be a confidence thing. Or an “I already have a professional developmental editor” thing. I think I’m at a point in my craft where I can try doing this. Because to have a fairly clean first draft would be euphoria to me.

So those are my challenges!! I’ll let you know next month how they all go!

Utah Vs. Arizona

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Seven years ago when my husband and I were preparing to move to Arizona, we were looking everywhere for information on what it would be like compared to where we already lived: Utah. At one point we clicked on a YouTube video that was titled “The differences of Arizona and Utah” and it ended up LITERALLY being a thirty second video of a guy saying, “They’re about the same”. Lol

Well, now that I’ve had a decent handful of years in both states, I decided that I’m going to be that blog post that I was searching for in the spring of 2018. So I know this is a super niche post, but yeah it is what it is.

SO HERE ARE THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN UTAH AND ARIZONA

(also no real organization. Just writing whatever comes to mind)

Whenever I visit Utah and relatives ask me about Arizona, they only want to talk to me about the heat haha. And I guess that’s everyone’s first consideration about Arizona is how hot living in the middle of a cactus forest is.

So yeah, it’s hot. And summertime is bunkering down into survival mode honestly. I’ve said this before (which is also a good post about AZ) but the heat is very similar to when you have to bend down and pull cookies out of the oven. But it’s only when you go outside. The weird part that I never really hear people other than Arizonans talk about, is that during the summer here in the valley EVERYWHERE (stores / vendors / businesses) is completely REFRIGERATED inside. It’s really bizarre. Because it’s 120 degrees outside, but the AC is pumped SO HARD inside Texas Roadhouse that you’re shivering lol. I’ve literally seen people walk into the grocery store in the dead of Arizona summer and bring their jackets with them.
It’s sort of weird though, okay. Because during the summer you’re in the constant extreme temperature changes and it’s bursts of refreshing feels. Like, I don’t know how else to explain this? You’ll walk from your car into the doctor’s office sweating like crazy and then as soon as you get into the building you’re like “Ahhhhh that feels amazing.” And then by the time you get out into the heat from the serious AC you’re like, “Ahhhh that feels amazing.” Hahaha!

As far as compared to Utah. It’s the same as the winter, just opposite timing. In the wintertime you stay indoors. And here in the summer you stay indoors. That’s pretty much it. Utah winters, it’s a pain in the ass to scrape your car, shovel your driveway and navigate I-15 in the snow. And Arizona summers, it’s a pain to touch your steering wheel when you get into your sunny car. Literally a pain. But other than the super sweaty car seat, I don’t think the maintenance of the heat is quite as bad as the maintenance of the snow. That’s my opinion of living here. Like, yeah you might have to turn on your AC and cool your car down. But it’s not like you have to turn your car on to warm it up and also physically dig it out of the ice to get to work. I don’t know. So in my personal opinion, I think the Arizona summers aren’t quite as challenging as Utah winters. As far as maintenance or commuting. Like if you WANT to take family pictures you really could year round. Whereas in Utah it’s a little more challenging to do that around the weather.

If you are familiar with Utah and their cities and you’re wondering which area of Arizona you want to move to (at least in the Phoenix / East Valley), I can tell you what compares. I would say Mesa is comparable to West Valley or Layton. And Gilbert is just Provo basically. Like I’ve seen more BYU bumper stickers in Gilbert than in Provo itself, if that gives you some idea. Scottsdale is like Park City, it’s beautiful and got cool things to see but unless you’re a professional baseball player I don’t see how you could afford to live there. Phoenix equals Salt Lake. That one’s easy. Apache Junction is like Vernal if it got overrun by a fentynal zombie apocalypse.

Okay, so if you’re on the fence about moving to Arizona from Utah. I’ve created a little quiz to help you decide:

QUESTION ONE: Can you eat a plate of fries without fry sauce? if the answer is no, stay in Utah.

QUESTION TWO: How many golf courses do you need within a 2 mi radius? Because if the answer is more than three, you want to be in Arizona.

QUESTION THREE: Do you like the color beige? If the answer is no, stay in Utah.

QUESTION FOUR: Do you need trees to breathe or can you get oxygen from turf?

QUESTION FIVE: Would you rather maintain a pool or shovel the driveway?

QUESTION SIX: Would you rather scrape ice off of your windshield with a credit card or have a pair of oven mitts in your car just in case you need to drive somewhere in the summer?

QUESTION SEVEN: Would you rather have an incredible 4th of July at a park with soft grass you can actually sit on? Or have a magical Halloween day where you don’t need a jacket over your costume and everyone’s outside on their driveway actually participating in trick or treating?

QUESTION EIGHT: Would you rather experience a full four (winter, spring, summer and fall) season? Or just a two (“Arrakis Hell” and “Snowbird”) season?

QUESTION NINE: Scorpions or Black Widows? It doesn’t matter, Arizona has both.

QUESTION TEN: Do you have a hobby of skiing or snowboarding? If yes, that’s fine we have Flagstaff.

QUESTION ELEVEN: Do you generally go 40 miles over the speed limit in any condition or street? If the answer is yes, welcome to Arizona.

21 Days “Around the World”

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First and foremost, this is REAL Americanized okay. I tried my best!

I did a little activity with my family in January that I thought I would share! I called it “21 Days Around the World”. Each night we “travelled” to a new place somewhere in the world, had a dinner inspired by that location and then watched a Disney movie or show that takes place there. That’s it. It was simple, but really fun! My oldest is very interested in Geography so it was great to involve his interest and involve the whole family.

If you’re interested in doing something similar or just curious where we “travelled to”. Here are the pages from the little flipbook I made for the “journey”: